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Should Christians Watch The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives?

Should Christians watch The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives? Hulu's most-watched unscripted season premiere of 2024 blends Mormon influencer culture with a bombshell revelation about spouse swapping. Here is the complete Christian assessment — including why Mormon is not the same as Christian.

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The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives (Hulu)
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0.9/5 · GodlyScore 18/100
The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives (Hulu, 2024-present) follows a group of Mormon influencer wives in Utah whose 'MomTok' social media community is upended by revelations about a spouse-swapping group within their circle. Hulu's most-watched unscripted season premiere of 2024. Content: sexual content discussion (swinging/spouse swapping as central plot), reality TV marriage dysfunction, influencer comparison culture. Worldview: LDS theology throughout — important for Christian viewers to distinguish from biblical Christianity. 18/100 Avoid.
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What The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Is

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives is a Hulu reality series following a group of women in Utah who built large social media followings as Mormon lifestyle influencers — part of a community known as "MomTok" on TikTok. The show's central conflict is a scandal that emerged publicly: several members of the group were involved in "the Swapp" — a spouse-swapping arrangement that violated both LDS church standards and the community's public image. The series became Hulu's most-watched unscripted season premiere of 2024 and has continued into subsequent seasons.

Mormon Is Not the Same as Christian — A Necessary Distinction

The title uses "Mormon" — the colloquial name for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS). This distinction matters significantly for Christian viewers. LDS theology differs from biblical Christianity on foundational doctrines: the nature of God (LDS teaches polytheism — God was once a man who progressed to divinity; humans can become gods), the person of Jesus Christ (a created being, spirit brother of Lucifer), the canon of Scripture (the Book of Mormon, Doctrine and Covenants, and Pearl of Great Price as additional scripture equal to or superseding the Bible), and salvation (works-based progression through LDS ordinances).

The Apostle Paul warns in Galatians 1:8-9: "But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach to you a gospel contrary to the one we preached to you, let him be accursed." The LDS gospel — including its account of the angel Moroni delivering a different gospel to Joseph Smith — falls within the category Paul addresses. Christians watching this show should be aware they are watching adherents of a non-Christian religion, not fellow believers in different cultural clothes.

The Content Concerns

Spouse swapping as central plot: The show's primary dramatic engine is the revelation and aftermath of a spouse-swapping arrangement among women publicly presenting as faithful LDS wives and influencers. Discussion of sexual activity outside marriage — presented as entertainment — is the specific content concern. Hebrews 13:4 — "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled" — addresses the sanctity of marital fidelity that this content treats as dramatic entertainment. Influencer culture and comparison: The show depicts an influencer ecosystem built on curated presentation of LDS family life, and then the revelation that this presentation was systematically dishonest. For Christian viewers, this is a case study in the spiritual danger of identity built on social media performance (Proverbs 31:30, 1 Samuel 16:7). Reality TV voyeurism: As with other reality TV, the entertainment framework involves watching real people's marriages and spiritual failures as entertainment.

See our guide on Should Christians Watch Love Island USA? for the reality TV marriage content comparison. See our Christian TV Reviews hub. Plugged In reviews the show with scene detail. GotQuestions on Mormonism addresses the theological differences.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should Christians watch The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives?
18/100 Avoid. Two distinct concerns: (1) Content — spouse-swapping as the central dramatic plot, discussion of sexual activity outside marriage as entertainment (Hebrews 13:4); reality TV voyeurism of real people's marital failures. (2) Theology — LDS is not biblical Christianity. The show immerses viewers in LDS cultural framework without distinguishing LDS theology from Christian theology. Christians watching should be aware of the theological difference and the specific content concerns.
Is Mormonism the same as Christianity?
No — LDS theology differs from biblical Christianity on foundational doctrines. God: LDS teaches God was once a man who progressed to divinity (polytheism); Christianity teaches God is eternally self-existent and uncreated. Jesus: LDS teaches Jesus is a created being and spirit brother of Lucifer; Christianity teaches Jesus is eternal God incarnate (John 1:1-14). Scripture: LDS adds the Book of Mormon, D&C, and Pearl of Great Price as scripture equal to or above the Bible. Salvation: LDS teaches works-based progression through LDS ordinances; Christianity teaches salvation by grace through faith alone (Ephesians 2:8-9). Galatians 1:8-9 addresses the LDS 'different gospel' directly.
What is MomTok and why does it matter for this show?
MomTok is a community of LDS lifestyle influencers on TikTok who built large followings by presenting idealized Mormon family life — modest clothing, large families, home-centered culture. The irony the show exploits is that beneath this curated presentation of Mormon family virtue was a spouse-swapping arrangement. For Christians, this is a specific case study in the spiritual danger of identity and community built on social media performance — the gap between public image and private reality that Proverbs 31:30 and Matthew 6:1 address.
What does the Bible say about spouse swapping or open relationships?
Scripture is unambiguous: sexual activity is designed by God for one man and one woman in covenant marriage (Genesis 2:24). Hebrews 13:4 — 'Let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.' Matthew 5:28 addresses even lustful intent. There is no biblical framework for consensual spouse swapping — the consent of all parties does not change the category. The show treats this as dramatic entertainment; Scripture treats marital fidelity as a picture of God's covenant love for his people (Ephesians 5:25-32).
Further Reading
Should Christians Watch Love Island USA?Christian TV Reviews HubPlugged InGotQuestions on MormonismShould Christians Watch Love Island USA?
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